match columns and rows from one sheet to another sheet

I have 2 sheets "Main" and "Received"
Both the Sheets has contains details of family as per the heading
Family id will be unique for one particular family.

I want to compare the details of family (Column wise and row wise in respective) in sheet "Main" with sheet "Received"
If particular family details are matching in both the sheets, then in Sheet "Main" in Column "J" (Status) I wants result as all the details area matched.

For Example
Family code "053221" in main sheet is Matching with Received sheet. All details area matching Like family id, Members name, age, DOB etc. Hence in status column Marked as "ALL DETAILS MATCHED"

Family code "023372" in main sheet is not Matching with Received sheet. The Difference is in name of the second family member. Hence in status column Marked as "NOT MATCHED"

Family code "019340" in main sheet is not Matching with Received sheet. The Difference is in total number of family member. Hence in status column Marked as "NOT MATCHED"

Matching Criteria to Mark status
a) first check family id

b) based on family id Check total Number of Family members
if b is matching in both the sheets then move to next criteria, if not matching then mark status as details are not matched.

c) based on family id Check total Name of all Family members
if c) is matching both in both sheets then move to next criteria, if not matching then mark status as details are not matched.

d) based on family id Check date of birthe of the Particular family member in both the sheets.
if d) is matching both in both sheets then move to next criteria, if not matching then mark status as details are not matched.

in same way match all other criteria like age, gender, relation and income group.

If all the details are Matched then give status as " ALL Details are Matched"

please find attached sheet for example. Differences are marked in red colour