Sorry to answer my own question but sometimes it helps others who are looking for a solution. I decided that you can't dictate the size of a data validation input message so I found a way to create a text box and display the data validation messages in that instead thus allowing me to format to my heart's content.
Her we go. Create a textbox on your sheet (in the insert>text tab in 2007) and size it and position it as desired. Right click in the border of the text box and select size and properties, properties tab, select 'don't move or size with cells' and remove the check mark from 'print object' Name the text box txtInputMsg.
Now right click on your sheet's tab and select 'view code' and past the following in:
Now you may wish to select the cells that have the data validation message and under the tab Data>Data tools>Data Validation>Data Validation>Input Message clear the tick from the show input message when cell is selected so that you don't get 2 messages.
When one of your cells that contains a data message is now selected the text box should appear with your message in it an go when you select any other cells.
My thanks to contextures.com for this end of solution.
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