Hi,
maybe you can add to your workbook simple macro that will make all comments to fit it's content.

Sub AutosizeComments()
Dim yourComments As Comment
For Each yourComments In Application.ActiveSheet.Comments
    yourComments.Shape.TextFrame.AutoSize = True
Next
End Sub
Or if you want them all to have specific size it can be also option..
That's I guess what I would do if some comments would drive me crazy, so just an idea
Good luck.